What's the Price You Pay for Ignoring Your Mind Works as a Decentralized System?
I’ve seen countless talented professionals cycle through endless psychotherapists and Emotional Coaches Programs — only to remain stuck in the same patterns.
The Rebelliam
7/29/20252 min read
Your mind operates like your body.
Your heart doesn’t ask your brain for permission to beat. Your eyes don’t require instructions to blink. They work independently. Brilliantly.
What you didn't know -until now- is that you have 20+ "mental assistants” doing the same thing.
Except they might be working with conflicting instructions.
I don't care about these "conflicting assistants". What's the matter?
Right now, this could be happening in your mind:
One assistant seeks promotion, while another fears authority figures - Could you become an authority figure one day?
The perfectionist battles the procrastinator - Could you finally move your ass from the couch and get things done?
Your money mindset conflicts with your success drive - Could you stop doing dumb investments and losing money?
Why it matters: These subpersonalities are formed from past experiences — abuse, family patterns, cultural programming. When you recognize them and direct them yourself, you gain the power to conduct your own personal development. But you can’t just get there as the big boss giving a task to anyone inside your mind.
You have to understand, validate, and negotiate their drives.
Exactly as you do in business management.
Who it affects most: High-achievers who know what to do but can’t consistently do it.
3 Ways This Changes Professional Growth
Immediate impact: You become your own guide, supporting your growth day after day.
6-month outlook: You conduct your personal development, not just consume it.
Long-term change: You break patterns with self-directed awareness.
The New Rules of Personal Development
Instead of depending solely on external guidance:
Start: Learning to recognize and communicate with your internal assistants
Stop: Waiting for sessions to address your patterns
Accelerate: Taking charge of your psychological development with consistency in a safe way
The professionals who develop this self-conducting ability will transform themselves faster than those who remain passive consumers of therapy.
Get to know your internal assistants and develop your Self-guidance to move in life while the world turns unpredictable as never before.
P.S. Your first step begins here. I don't promise you a life in the clouds. I do promise you won't regret it.